:'(

异地恋其实很幸福 ^_______^

有許多人不同意，畢竟分隔兩地，不能照顧依偎著對方，心裡的失落總是有的罷。

但是很多異地戀的人確實是幸福的，比任何人都幸福。

兩個人能整天膩在一起，固然很幸福，他們很少會寂寞，但是也很少有綿長的思念。思念本身就是一種最大的幸福，記得自來也大人曾經對名人說，思念你的人就是你的歸處。

擁有異地戀的人是幸運的，因為你擁有了一個願意和你一起堅持努力的人，你擁有了一顆能和你有著相同執著和夢想的心，你擁有了一份強烈到有勇氣挑戰可惡的距離的愛，這難道不是一種幸福嗎？

每當一個人靜靜的時候，想到有一個人和你一樣在堅守這如此脆弱的愛情，那種溫暖，不是異地戀的人是無法體會的，那是一種心靈無聲的溝通，是無條件的信賴。茫茫人海中，能找到這樣一個無條件信賴自己的人，這難道不是一種幸福嗎？

兩個人常常在一起，難免會大意，他們常常會一起吃飯，一起逛街，一起上課，但是卻常常忽略了心靈上的溝通。對於一份真正的愛情，溝通才是最重要的，它能保持愛情的新鮮感，能讓對方了解現在愛著的是怎樣的一個人。只有了解了對方，愛情裡才不會有誤解， 才不會有錯失了的愛情。所以，異地戀的人有了愛情的優勢，他們很久都見不了面，有了心事，有了難過就在電話裡傾訴，他們的每一次交談都相當於一次交心，因為彼此都能了解對方的想念，所以，在他們之間很少有了誤會，彼此都懂得了諒解，懂得了寬容。這難道不是一種幸福嗎？

甜言蜜語也算的愛情的潤滑劑吧，沒有一對戀人可以有像異地戀人那樣擁有繁多的機會說甜言蜜語，每次電話裡，總是無意中會說一些“想你”“等你”“愛你”，即使話不多的人也一樣會說，因為彼此愛著，因為目前只有“語言”這樣一種工具可以表達自己的心情，因為愛的表達，其實都單一。所以，能堅持異地戀的人都是深切的愛著的，這樣的愛在時間的河流里平淡卻激烈，我想這是所有人都會羨慕的愛。擁有著這樣的愛的你，難道不幸福嗎？

在愛情裡我最不怕的就是距離，只要真正愛著，終歸是能在一起。是啊，距離在那麼深切的愛里算什麼？什麼也不是。如果你們因為異地戀就輕易分手了，千萬不要把罪過怪在距離上，你應該慶幸，自己離開了的一個並不真正愛你的人，因為在愛的面前，距離真的什麼也不是。所以,如果你的愛人也在遙遠的地方，不要覺得寂寞，不要覺得委屈，要慶幸，你用寂寞和思念換來了一份真正的愛，那是別人求之不得的愛。

从facebook 看到这篇文章。。想一想，其实也对。。 至少，以前告诉我他不会说甜言蜜语的吴文璟~现在常常会说想我爱我。。 听到那些话。。是真的甜在心里的。。 ^____^

很快很快又可以见到日思夜想的他了~ =D

Dear

Dear dear dear..

我好想你好想你好想你。。

:(

你开始做工了我好不习惯。。

想你的时候也不知道要怎么办。。

你做工回家过后又很累。。

每天每天可以讲话也那么一下子。。

我知道人长大了什么都回改变。。

要学会适应。。

可是还是很想你。。

我们两个距离又这么远。。

想要你抱一下也这么远。。

：（

可是我会学着习惯。。

希望你做工好好的。。

开开心心的。。

：）

我很爱你。。

老婆

老婆，你在赶你的assignment我也不敢吵你～

看看我的one piece，还是会想你。。

平时不是我都没想到你噢，我每天都在想你。

只是没说出口。。好想紧紧抱着肉肉的你 :)

吵架超级难受的，不要动不动就生气～疼你都来不及了，怎么会没想到你呢？

想抱你，想亲你，想爱爱你。。

我想你。。

Conversation 19th of August ^^

[5:52:14 PM] Go Wen Jing: yer

[5:52:17 PM] Go Wen Jing: muacks muacks

[5:52:18 PM] Go Wen Jing: mm~

[5:52:25 PM] Go Wen Jing: mm~ = muacks muacks

[5:52:26 PM] Go Wen Jing: :D

[5:52:33 PM] Go Wen Jing: M^2

[5:52:37 PM] Go Wen Jing: = MM

[5:52:41 PM] Go Wen Jing: MM = Muacks Muacks

[5:52:48 PM] Go Wen Jing: Muacks = Kiss

[5:53:05 PM] Go Wen Jing: Kiss chin, therefore Kiss chin = KC

[5:53:08 PM] Go Wen Jing: I love KC

[5:53:12 PM] Go Wen Jing: = I love kiss chin

[5:53:13 PM] Go Wen Jing: :D

[5:53:17 PM] Go Wen Jing: formula

[5:53:17 PM] Go Wen Jing: haha

[5:53:38 PM] kassie_ong: ye

[5:53:38 PM] Go Wen Jing: My love to kassie ong = when 8 is lying on grounf

[5:53:49 PM] kassie_ong: suddenly so sweet one

[5:53:51 PM] kassie_ong: :P

[5:53:58 PM] Go Wen Jing: blek

[5:54:02 PM] Go Wen Jing: i'm oweys sweet

Our conversation.. :P

Although i answer coldly..

But actually i feel sweet.. :P

Love you! Muacks!

From her

6612km

The distance between us..

6612km of flight..

16 weeks..

Y so far.

I feel so miserable.

Help, I need some helpppp.

.

.

.

.

.

.

My heart is so badly sick.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder? or further?

I miss you

Haven't been updating this blog for so long..

Feel something when i type the password for this blog..

We have been together for 8 months..

Not too long n not too short..

N i hope that we would be together for 8 years, 80 years, forever..

Look through all the pics that we took using the G11..

I missed the time together..

3 more months to go..

Although i am quite used to the life without you now..

Still..

Miss you a lot..

I think

I am actually still not too used with it..

It's just that..

I am better in hiding my emotion now..

Although i failed for few times..

Crying in front of you..

Actually i asked myself not to do so..

Kind of like this pic..

I love the time together with you..

Every moment..

Actually i got a lot to say..

but i am just not good at expressing myself..

Dear,

I miss you..

Every hour, every minutes, every seconds, every moments.

From her

我想你

当我送你送到机场的时候，才知道你真的要走了。。

一直以为我不会怎么样，可是在你已离开到澳洲的时候，

我却发现我生活里少了一些东西。。

驾着车，没有了你的手，是多么地不习惯。

肚子饿了，没有了你的陪伴，东西也没什么味道。

看着戏，没有了你的拥抱，是那么地累。。

老婆大人，我想你。

I dun bear

Happy moments always pass faster..
N it's so true..
My one month holiday left one week..
Going back to uni soon..
Bu she de..
But what to do..


Love you.

<3


From her

Cherish every moment with him :)

I am back in Muar~ My lovely home..
N finally.. Get to see my dear~
I really cherish every moment with him~
:)


From Her

^____^

如果我这次猜拳猜输了
会不会我就被神取消了
我爱你的资格
未来会怎样谁敢保证呢
此时此刻怎么轻飘飘的
好像不是真的
真的以为情歌还不都是骗人的
真的忘了变成哑巴有多久了
依依不舍舍不得
地球上最浪漫的一首歌
我怕太超现实的快乐
只是你借给我的
紧紧抱着拥抱着
地球上最浪漫的一首歌
我的灵魂二十一公克
因为你而完整了完美了
把此刻翻折翻折再翻折
折成一万一千一百一十零一只千纸鹤
如果说梦是现实的反射
能不能就这样让我们赖在一起睡着了
真的自己原来还有做梦的资格
原来伤过心的心还是肉做的
把不可能变可能
地球上最浪漫的一首歌
你眼神里那一种光泽
心里还是热热的
最亲爱的心爱的
地球上最浪漫的一首歌
把苦苦的变的甜甜的
因为你是而获得找到了
找到了

He is back! =D

Darling is back today~ =D I m going back soon~ Cant wait to see him le.. These two photos r my favourite~ Hehehehe.. Really love this set of photos so much!

4th Day

It's the 4th day of his trip~ He went online juz now.. but i think got disconnected.. Sent a msg to me keep saying sorry.. Why r u in bad mood? Hmph... I m worry.. Feel like talking to him.. but cant call..

The 3rd day

It's the 3rd day that he is not around.. Hm.. Miss him a lot today.. Might be due to my stress.. Somehow.. He is the person i wish to rely on when i feel weak.. Darling i wish u were here..

His 2nd day in Cambodia

His second day in Cambodia.. Miss him so much but these photos really cheer me up~ ^___^ Darling i love you so much! Can see that you are happy for your trip.. Hehe~ I share the joy with u~ :P One day nearer to go home~ Would be able to hug u soon! =D

First day without him

Hohohoho..
It's the first time that he really goes to the other place n we cant really contact..
But feel happy to receive his msg..
^__________^
Miss him so much..
Darling i miss u~~~~~

Heart

我没有很想你
我只是在早上醒来的时候，看看手机，有没有你发来的信息，有没有你的未接来电。
我没有很想你
我只是在上网的时候，首先关注你的空间，看看你最近是不是有更新。
我没有很想你
我只是在聊天的时候，翻阅你发给我的短信，看着你的照片，回忆一下那些美好时光
我没有很想你
我只是饿了会想你饿么，冷了想你会冷么
我没有很想你
我只是走在大街上看到男男女女，好希望那一对对里有我们
我没有很想你
我只是把你的来电调成唯一的铃音，放在我身边，并时不时的看看是否自动关机，是否信号良好
我没有很想你
我只是在吃小吃的时候，想如果你能和我一起吃，那该是多幸福的事啊
我没有很想你
我只是在听歌的时候，偶尔会被某句歌词击中，脑中出现短暂的空白
我没有很想你
我只是想看看你的样子，听听你的声音
我没有很想你
我只是在别人无意提起你的时候，愣在那里，不知答话
我没有很想你
我只是在睡前紧握着手机，等待着你的情话，等待着你说晚安
我没有很想你
我只是睡不着的时候想想你，但是，我不知道我是因为睡不着而想你，还是因为想你而睡不着
我没有很想你
我只是在每次醒来的时候，第一个想到你……
或许想念只属于某一个人，如果两个人都在想念彼此，那一定是一对幸福的恋人

我很想你

Like this post..
^__^

15 days

15 days to go~
My dear my darling my baby my everything..
I am going to see u soon^^


N ya..
Saw the your pic from your blog juz now..
Really havent see the real u for a long time..
Miss having u sitting in front of me..
:)

her

It starts with a 1 now!!! =D

19 days~~~~~~~~~~~~~~`
would be fast fast fast fast fast~~~~~~~~~~~~
Can see u soon.........
Miss u a lot sob sob..
How's sing k session?
Hope u enjoy it~
=D

21 Days

3 weeks!!! Yup!!! Another 3 weeks!!! At this time.. i will be preparing my luggage for the flight at nite!!! =D

See u soon~~~ <3

I don't know whether this is a good start...
But i am trying my very best..
The best i can do..
Seriously i don't know what you think about it..
But for this relationship..
I am trying everything i can..
Give a chance to both of us..
and the relationship ba.

No one is perfect..
N no one is perfect for a relationship.
I always believe..
There would certainly be argument..
But i thought..
After argument..
We should get better..
not the other way round..
Both of us grew up from different family.
We got different character..
For two person to complement each other..
Give and take..
N i believe give and take is from both parties..

I know i am not perfect..
I know i got my bad part..
I am trying to decrease it to minimum..

There's part of u that i dun like either..
Can both of us..
Both of us try to adapt each other?
Not to change totally..
But at least..
Adapt to each other?

If we are able to accept each other good and bad..
Then we can go on well..

But if we really cant..
after we tried very very hard..
I hope
at least
we can still be they happy Jing and Kas like before.








Though..
I hope..
Jing and Kas can go on forever..

22 days

Changes some thinking..
Hope this will last..
And hope both of us ll get better..
I really so hope so..

Her

23 Days

I really hope that tomorrow is the day that i am going back..
I cant wait for even 23 days..
Cant wait to see u..


Her

24 Days

It's getting closer n closer..



Her

25 Days

Can i survive through?






From her

26 days

Do you still miss me so much?

You are being missed..

>.<

From her

27 days

27 days to hug u kiss u..

^_________________^

Miss u so much everyday..

From her

Long distance relationship..

is no fun.

29 Days

The number starts with 2 now~~ :P

Going to see u soon~

:D

lalalalalalalalalala~

HAppy~

^___________^

From her

Waiting for you

I'm waiting you to come back, stay by my side every moment.
Kiss your cheek, kiss your lips =/

Him

30 Days

想你想得，

心脏都快爆炸了。

From her

31 Days

31 days to go..

To me..

As long as i m with u..

Doesnt need to mean anything..

I feel that is meaningful..

U get what i mean?

From her

32 Days

It's getting closer to the day i go back..

But exam is coming soon too..

:(

先苦后甜..

Tat's life ba..

He is alone at home now..

Hope that i am able to accompany him..

But what to do..

We r at different places......

miss u lots..

From her

33 Days

"久别重逢的时候,记得给我一个拥抱,在我耳边说"我好想你......"

Saw this sentence from a post...

33 days to go..

Would u do that to me? :P


From her

34 Days

I realized that i love you more and more each day..

Dear.. Going to see u soon..

^_____________^

Still missing u so much...

Of coz i hope that u love me more and more each day too..

:P


From her

35 Days

剩下35天。。

可是怎么办。。

我不行了。。。

From her

36 Days

36 more days to go...

Final exam timetable is confirmed today...

He told me that he is going to pick me up from the airport..

Sweet.. That's what i feel..

^___^

I love u.

From her

37 days

Get to see him in 37 days..

But i still miss him a lot..

N this blog seems to be abandoned by him..

:P

But nvm..

I will still update it often..

It's part of my love..

^___________^

I love you dear..

From her

Vanilla Twilight - Owl City

Songwriters: Young, Adam;

The stars lean down to kiss you
And I lie awake and miss you
Pour me a heavy dose of atmosphere

'Cause I'll doze off safe and soundly
But I'll miss your arms around me
I'd send a postcard to you, dear
'Cause I wish you were here

I'll watch the night turn light-blue
But it's not the same without you
Because it takes two to whisper quietly

The silence isn't so bad
'Til I look at my hands and feel sad
'Cause the spaces between my fingers
Are right where yours fit perfectly

I'll find repose in new ways
Though I haven't slept in two days
'Cause cold nostalgia
Chills me to the bone

But drenched in vanilla twilight
I'll sit on the front porch all night
Waist-deep in thought because
When I think of you I don't feel so alone

I don't feel so alone, I don't feel so alone

As many times as I blink
I'll think of you tonight
I'll think of you tonight

When violet eyes get brighter
And heavy wings grow lighter
I'll taste the sky and feel alive again

And I'll forget the world that I knew
But I swear I won't forget you
Oh, if my voice could reach
Back through the past
I'd whisper in your ear
Oh darling, I wish you were here

Love the lyrics..

Cause it's my feel..

Dear i miss u.

From her

21 guns

21 guns..
The song he loved..
The song that made me cry..
I miss u..


From her

好想,累的时候抱抱你!

很喜欢拥抱，喜欢与心爱的人深情相拥的感觉，什么也不

说， 什么也不做，就只是静静地拥抱，久久不要分开，似乎只 有这样，才能体会与心爱的人真正溶为一体的真实感。在那一 刻，相信时间也会为我们停止的……

好想,累的时候抱抱你!　　­一直以来都觉得，拥抱，较之 亲吻更加真实、温馨，那个可以让你依靠的胸膛一定是很温 暖的，肩膀也一定很坚实。不然为什么大家在伤心哭泣的时 候，总想找个肩膀来依靠呢，我想，其实更多地是想要一个 拥抱吧。­拥抱的时候，内心会溢满一种叫甜蜜的情愫，拥 抱的感觉是真实和安全的，因为拥抱是有温度的，拥抱是有声音 的……

　　­拥抱的含义有很多：
　　­情侣间的拥抱，是幸福甜蜜的；
　　­夫妻间的拥抱，是宽容理解的；
　　­朋友间的拥抱，是贴心信任的；
　　­吵架后的拥抱，代表妥协与原谅；
　　­相逢后的拥抱，代表思念与激动；
　　­离别前的拥抱，代表不舍与期待……

　　­拥抱，是无声的语言，拥抱，是最简单的接受与认可……
　　­拥抱的时候，彼此是被需要的，被别人需要是时候，是一 个人最有价值的时候……

　　­曾经在篇文章上看到一段话：
　　当一个女人从背后抱着你的时候，请一定别再挪动脚步，而 请转过身，紧紧抱着自己的女人。
　　因为，当一个女人愿意从背后深情抱着你的时候，代表着 她把自己的身心都交给了你，那拥抱里，有着太多太多的爱……
　　­当一个男人从背后拥抱着自己的女人，两人的感觉是温 馨和甜蜜的；当一个女人从背后拥抱着自己的男人，女人是无声 的祈求，而男人是心的复归和宁静……

　　­亲爱的，我曾经说过，好想累的时候你能抱着我，其实， 我何尝不想累的时候，你能在身边，无需太多言语，只要一个拥 抱，再苦再累都值得……

　　­也好想，能够在你累的时候，从身后环住你的腰，把脸 轻轻靠在你的后背，静静地，无需语言，用心灵对话，倾听彼此 内心的声音……

　　­亲爱的，不能守在你的身边，不能在你伤心难过的时候 给你安慰；不能在你累的时候给你拥抱；也不能在你喝醉的 时候假装很生气的臭骂一顿，然后再把你带回家；更看不到你面 对这么多不可能时的无奈与心酸……

　　­­可是，我是可以体会你的心情的，因为，在你倍受思 念痛苦的同时，我和你是一样的，可是我们别无选择亲爱的……

　　­可是，亲爱的，你怎么不在我身边，电话再甜美，话语再 安慰，也不足以应付不能拥抱你的遥远。

　　­拥抱，真得这么遥不可及吗？

　　­请相信我，我会用我的双臂，在你看到我的第一眼时拥你 入怀。

　　­亲爱的，好想好想你，好想好想累的时候能抱抱你……



Really miss him a lot..
Wish that i could hug him when he is not happy...
Wish that i m by his side for his ups and downs...
Wish that i could take part in everything in his life...
Wish that i could get his hug when i m stressed..
Wish that i could have him by my side no matter what happened...
Wish that i could hug him in sleep...

Dear...
I miss u a lot...



From her

New layout

This is the new layout for this blog.

A small suprise for my dear.

I love her every single moment, now and forever.

Kassie, i love your forever and i miss you lots.

From him

想他。

From her

Again. Quarrel badly.
Talk. Communication. Need. Help.

Miss

My mind is full of him right now..
Miss him a lot..
Enjoy your trip..
I love u!


From her

Congrates!!!

Congrates my dear for graduating!!!
How i wish that i could be by your side..
celebrate with u..
Congrates!!!!!!!!
N i love u always!

I hate

8 hours Distance.I hate
Overseas call.I hate
Cant see.I hate
Different time.I hate
Quarrel.I hate
Cold.I hate
Alone.I hate
Night.I hate
Dark.I hate
Without him.I hate


From her

超感动~

Saw the previous blog from him..
I am super duper touched by him..
yeah.. from best fren to lover..
we know each other well..
Although there's quarrel sometimes..
but i believe that would only make us know each other better..

He is the someone that i will think of when i am sad..
He is the someone that i will think of when i am happy..
He is the someone that i hope i can share everything with..
He is the someone that fill my brain and my heart everyday..
He is the first someone whom i will think until i cry..

He is the very very very very special someone to me..

I love u..
And i hope i can grow old with u..



From her

一起做过以上十样的是一辈子的朋友

1、 睡在过同一张床
2、 穿过一样的衣服
3、 互穿过对方的衣服
4、 自己逛自己的，买回来的东西竟然一样
5、 一起哭过、笑过
6、 一起吃饭、喝酒、K歌
7、 一起出去旅游
8、 一到节假日，一定会出去庆祝/玩
9、 彼此羡慕对方
10、互相认识至少5年
11、都喜欢拿对方开玩笑
12、家里人都知道她/他的名字
13、遇到困难，总是互帮互助
14、吵过嘴，干过仗，但依然很铁儿
15、难受伤心的时候第一个想和对方倾诉
16、一个眼神或一个小举动就知道她/他在想什么


只有朋友才会这样说----【亲爱的，我们一定要有几个

这样的朋友】

只有朋友才会这样说：你怎么这么烦人啊

只有朋友才会这样说：别跟我臭得瑟

只有朋友才会这样说：生病了还到处走，想死啊

只有朋友才会这样说：我才懒得管你呢

只有朋友才会这样说：你怎么能跟他在一起

只有朋友才会这样说：你俩不合适

只有朋友才会这样说：分了更好，免得你更伤心

只有朋友才会这样说：你这么做值么

只有朋友才会这样说：别再那做梦了

只有朋友才会这样说：有我在，不用怕~

朋友 我们一起开心，开心的牵着手走在马路上吃着冰淇淋

朋友 我们一起难过，难过的心情第一个找到彼此诉说伤痛

朋友 我们一起分享，分享那恋爱的甜蜜分手的痛苦

朋友 我们一起哭泣，哭泣着拿着酒杯麻醉失恋的悲伤

朋友 我们一起感受，感受着彼此生活的一切一切 ！

不要再因为一件小事而去任性

不要再因为一句话而去怀疑他对你的真诚

不要当自己被外面的残酷璀璨的遍体鳞伤时，才想到有他的存在！

送给我所有的朋友，无论你们现在是幸福的，甜蜜的，伤心地，郁闷的，记着都有朋友在！

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在‘脸书’上看到的一个link。‘一起做过以上十样的是一辈子的朋友’
看了看，想到。。这些我都跟某个人做过，就在我 highlight 起来的东西，我们都做过。
12／16，应该算是一辈子的朋友吧。。可是呢，她不是我的朋友。。
因为，已经在05-12-2009升为女朋友了。。
跟好朋友拍拖。。虽然才刚开始，感觉好像拍拖很久了。。很了解很了解。。
我爱你，我的好朋友／女朋友。。:)

From him.

=)

happy. beside. sad. apart soon.
love.

From him

A big surprise~

I am by his side now~~~
^__________________^
I am happy and content~~


From her

How much i wish that he is at my side now.. T_T

我的老婆大人。。

还真是不错听。。

呵呵。。

^_______________________________________^

Another day without him

I miss him I miss him I miss him I miss him I miss him x 10000000000000000000000
I miss him so much...
:~(

Really wish that i have a doraemon...

Doraemon! Pls come n look for me..



好想你。。


From her

Missess

*sob sob*

This is another weekend without him..
12 more weeks to go...
how am i going to manage myself without him..
He is like my everything now..
Think of him whenever i am.. whatever i do..
Really hope that i can see him anytime i wan..
Really hope that i can talk to him every single moment i miss him..

This is another pic that i like~ <3





















Him that i miss.. :(



















From her... With plenty of miss..

Maybe

To Dear,

Maybe the way i talk is like i don't care,
Maybe the way i message doesn't make you think that i love you,
Maybe the way i think is too self-centered,
Maybe the way i care doesn't make you think that i do care,

But, i'm really love you.
I'm changing for you, slowly.

Today i feel that you're not happy, because of what i've said yesterday.
I'm very confuse to myself about what i really want.
I just couldn't help myself sometimes.
When i'm on fire, the way i talk is really hurting but i doesn't mean it.
Sorry dear.

From him

The first pic

I think this is the first pic that we took together~
I mean after we are together..

Every relationship got it's sweet n bitter..
And i believe..
if we really love each other..
we should go through the sweet n bitter together..
hope that we are able to go through all the obstacles~

From her

22/3/2010

This is how we talk to each other...
Coz we are studying at different places..
I miss you.
I love you..
<3


From Her

Sudden Thought

When i was bathing.. there's a sudden thought.. I want to create a blog.. about everything of us.. So.. here it goes.. the Jing_leKas world.. ^________^